It all comes out in the wash once they’re grown. — Death and taxes. Wasn’t it Benjamin Franklin who first said those are the only two things that are certain in life? Then why—in the last few weeks—have both of my twentysomething daughters called to tell me they received overdue tax notices? …

And when appreciation of your own parents can finally settle in. — It’s Christmas morning. I’m up early. …

What will they think of next? — When I got married over 30 years ago, things were much different. My then-future-husband popped the question in a low-key spot that at least held some sentimental value: the college dorm lobby where we shared our first kiss. We were the only ones present for the proposal and he did…

And yes, they were “great,” too! — My mom’s dad’s two sisters (aka my grandfather’s sisters) were named Katherine and Elizabeth. Aunt Katie and Aunt Betty for short. I never met my maternal grandfather as he passed away the year I was born, but his older sisters were a big part of my childhood. I have many…

Even though it’s easier said than done. — Two years ago, I started my own freelance writing business. The work has been steady and typically satisfying. But one of the biggest challenges I’ve faced is how to set a fair price for my services. Knowing how to make a project worth your time and effort without pricing yourself…

Where’s your spot? — “Feelings that come back are feelings that never went away.” - Unknown We all know places that call out to us whenever we need a dose of comfort. An old neighborhood. A hometown coffee shop. A best friend’s kitchen. Maybe it’s not an actual space. …

It’s a bumpy ride, but you’ll never make it to the end if you hop off early. — Trying to land a literary agent is hard. If I’ve learned anything over the years, it’s that rejection is part of the process. And at least for me, a BIG part. Although hearing “no” after “no” after “no” stings, I refuse to let it break me. The pursuit of a…

And why second-guessing life choices is not a good idea. A comment my husband made about my career recently has me rethinking all sorts of things about my life right now. …

It can be scary, stressful, and senselessly expensive. — I’ve tried to be festive for Halloween. Honestly, I have. But for one reason or another, I always dread the day and can’t wait to flip the calendar from October 31st to begin a new month. Yes, I admit it. Even though it’s a good excuse to indulge in candy…